Not that life ever feels like you think it should at a certain age, but at 30, I felt as if things were going pretty well. I was running my own digital-strategy consultancy and it was actually making money, I had learned that two cocktails were more than enough on a date, and I was finally living in an apartment—in Brooklyn—furnished with more than just Adult friend find riding woman wanted blow-up mattress.
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But ffiend was missing. We were in different places in life. I was curious albeit skeptical. Online dating, or employing a website or app to find a potential partner, has lost much of its stigma; there are 40 million Americans using dating websites, as reported by eHarmony, and 20 percent of relationships today started online.
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Still, there was just something that felt taboo in utilizing that same technology to meet friends. Anyone who has to use technology to make friends must not be able to make them in real life, right? Then again, when was the last time, post-college or grad school, you actually made a new, lasting friendship?
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I wanted a friend to come over and lounge on my couch and drink wine with and laugh over the latest swipe-right Adult friend find riding woman wanted story. One night, as I sat on my couch fjnd opened the app to swipe right and left on a new slew of shirtless bathroom selfies, office-friendly headshots, and photos of single guys posing with cute pets, in spite of my hesitations, I decided to try BFF.
I was still skeptical. I saw interesting women and wanted to connect but feared ultimately we never would.
An hour later, I got my first match: Chantal, a year old marketing executive. I have an interesting career, live in a sweet apartment with the man of my dreams and our cute cat in our favorite city.
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She schedules everything, even social activities.
A few days later, after circling the block several times, I finally walked through the revolving door of her apartment building and rode the elevator up to the sixth floor.
When she opened the door, she was wearing a black T-shirt and jeans.
I took my shoes off and made my way to the dining-room table. For the next three hours, we shared stories about dating, family, and moving to New York—and I devoured every piece of Brie on the plate. I told her about my latest romantic Bumble encounter with a quirky comedian.
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wmoan I wondered if it would remain just that—a first date after which the excitement fades and you become strangers again, like it never happened. A few weeks after we met, I had a week filled with anxiety.
One of the best employees on my team unexpectedly quit, and I was overwhelmed with my to-do list. It was hard to get out of bed. When I told Chantal, she encouraged me to meet her at her office. We walked to lunch, and she listened as I vented.
The next morning, she sent a text checking in on me: Let me know if you want matzo ball soup. Over the last Adult friend find riding woman wanted months, Chantal has become one of the most important people in my life.
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Me, I open the app a little less. When I feel lonely, instead of reaching for the app, I might text or call Chantal to get together, just ffind I wanted.
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