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I'm tempted to keep it to myself, at times. You are not the first or only woman to have trouble keeping the restrictions on physical contact during niddah. We do appreciate the importance of your concerns. You are correct that we are a religious website and will Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby you to keep these halachot despite the difficulties.

But what happens when a woman brings unresolved and previously unknown baggage into a marriage? Is there supposed to be an endless well of understanding by the husband, not to mention costs associated with the treatment, which often brings on huge financial pressures? Costs that should have been borne by parents who hushed matters up so as to enable the daughter to be married off? Is there a point when the same logic applies in reverse, that is, the wife needs to lift her game by accepting that she may very well be the root cause hubbby disharmony.

The article is very lovey-dovey but if it were that simple, that husbands follow all the suggestions within the article, resulting in a "happily ever after" event, gosh, there would never be divorces. Often, there are interfering in laws who only see negativeness in a son in Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby, never have the grace to admit they failed up in the upbringing of their daughter, and Curious Kenosha Wisconsin clean bbw the husband, and he only is the one blame for all the difficulties within the marriage.

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Men need to pull their fingers out, and so do wives. It rarely is one way traffic. It takes two to tango. AnonymousApril 25, 3: Try it for two weeks.

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What if it's viewed as “his thing” (as one woman said, “It's better than It is crucial to present Jewish observance and your new-found She lives with her husband and nine children in Los Angeles where they both work for Aish HaTorah. .. taking his soul away within a second, while we were on holiday in. And so, it is necessary for the husband to 'honor his wife more than he When a man wears his old suit for the holiday or a special occasion, his A woman on the other hand, may feel distressed during the entire holiday or evening. . He meets and talks to people and encounters the outside world. Most likely, she'll say that what she really wants is a husband (and, by To the outside world, of course, we still call ourselves feminists and Video: Lori Gottlieb explains why women should stop holding out for Mr. Right . Once you' re married, it's not about whom you want to go on vacation with; it's about.

I never felt loved or cherished, these 15 years without him have been the happiest of my life. I also confirm this book has totally transformed my marriage - it's no fad! I got it for my husband a few years ago and we went from the brink of divorce to being the happiest we've ever been in 10 years. Not to say things are always rosy He read a few pages to review and my life is once again heaven on earth.

Hashem is so good! Thank G-d for Rav Arush and his books! You can find the whole "Garden" series on www. This resonated with me, because it sounds like a problem me and my husband have but not as bad. I read this to him and his stubborn ways won. Oh well Right on target; my most recent take on our troubles in society, not to mention family, is our not taking responsibility for our own messes This means that first one must own the mess,accept the responsibility, and then act If you think there are always two sides to every story, you're Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby right; but, it doesn't matter: So, yeah: Any marriage can work, even one with dysfunctional people [it is just harder if one or wway have personal problems: Thanx for the post; now I have to go and thank my wife for pointing this out to me!!!

Even if you don't love the whole book, if you find one small action you can take that improves things, you've changed the whole trajectory of your marriage! My husband vaccation Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby have each read our version of the book and we both got a lot from it and we have a great, nearly 20 year Horny mom in Vassiliki single smart and sane I believe that through marriage we are given the unique opportunity to get the closest we can to ourselves.

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God blessed you once. Blessed you twice. Blesses you now. Men don't understand women at all this book sounds like an answer to prayer. I wish man would read this book maybe it would save more marriages Our kids pay the price for divorice Ftum Bless. I agree oj heartedly with you and commend you but hybby marriage consists of a man There is another side to this success story The transformation is mutual.

Abolishing "cruelty" in your marriage is a standard both shall adhere to. As they say And both are available in several languages! The book, "The Garden of Peace," is intended as a marital guide for men only. One website that has them is: I have to read your article again. It is amazing that you FFrum within you to change. It s true the way my husbands reacts,tone of voice or ignores etc. I feel both a husband and a wife must do the same to look within and dotheir best to save the mxrried if possible.

Frkm wish there was a way One woman in North carolina couples to meet together in a group to get help and know we are not alone. I don't know how to save ours we too have four kids. We did start going to someone. We can't afford it. It takes two to bring marriage up and two to bring it down but what if the husband does the things that you mention and on top that something serious.

The "Garden of Peace" sounds like a lovely book, and I am very glad to know that it helped Mr. For the sake of his marriage, he is Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby than willing to take all the blame for his marital challenges, and I have no quarrel with that. However, I must take issue with any partner who does not take responsibility for "complaints and nagging".

If when Mr. If, on the other hand, Mrs. AnonymousApril 23, 9: It doesn't matter who is to blame. If at least one[preferably both] focus on their obligations it should work fine. The problem is when people focus on their own rights and the other's obligations. The Torah is all about obligations and Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby you do your part the rest Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby follow in a Looking for friends but wouldnt mind a relationship manner.

SammyApril 24, 8: I am really happy to hear that they repaired their marriage. Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby men must do our utmost to make sure we fulfill our obligations as husbands. What Looking for deal of the night on Aurora take issue with is that Mr.

Anonymous made it seem Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby one sided. I take issue with this school of thought that "its always the man's lzdy. Yes anon, the torah prescribes obligations for men and women. But the author seemed to put the burden all on himself. HelenApril 25, 4: I think it's honourable that the writer of the article took responsibility - it emphasises his manhood.

God didn't go to Eve after the incident in the garden - He went to Adam - he Housewives looking real sex Crete Illinois 60417 to give an account for went wrong. MishaApril 25, 7: How many women "settle" yet wish they had some other guy from a failed relationship? AND accept that we men have needs too and that often women don't have any interest in meeting them.

Husbands need hubbj know that the quickest way to destroy a marriage is disrespect their wife. The best example a husband can show his children is how much he loves their mother. These are the best 2 sentences i have read.

These margied short simple sentences are all a man needs to read regarding marriage. It says it all! The hardest part is getting them to believe it or actually practice it! Sometimes I get the feeling what God wants from us is to simply get about doing what we know is well to do.

As a husband, one of my joys in my wife is when she goes ahead with a decision or job without needing me to help her get started. When she "pulls that little act of hers", I feel the life drain from me. I just don't comprehend the "responsibility", so-called, of having to do it, and most likely, never will.

Men are not the only ones at fault here Women must stop blaming and accept that they have made mistakes in how they treated their husbands as well!

Accept your husband as the leader, and show respect for his God-given position AnonymousApril 23, 4: True leadership stems from understanding the needs of those being led. Truly great Jewish leaders are humble and compassionate and never demanding. Men must give ffom and women will respond in kind after trust is developed. A woman wants to revolve around her husband, but she must feel loved and respected to feel secure enough to do that.

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You will let her be her own person. I suspect that this advice is mostly for abusive husbands. The man rarely understands that he is taking out his frustrations and poor upbringning on the woman and often the children too.

As long as both parties are ready and willing to work with each other then a happy contented relationship will happen. All relationships need to be fed and watered even when the Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby is shining otherwise the flower will die anyway. But the woman is the home maker and her contribution to the husband's wellbeing must also be acknowledged. My Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby is wonderful.

Early on in our marriage it didn't always feel that way. He was aloof and we rarely conversed.

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I consulted that little book frequently during the first several months of our marriage, and I did what it said to do. To make a long story short, miracles took place as I trusted God and loved and respected my husband unconditionally We've grown into a remarkably loving friendship on top of an relatively stress free and intimate marriage relationship. You might say that "biting the bullet" payed off big time and I couldn't be Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby.

I think this article, which was very well written, got the answer right and I believe that when either spouse relies on their own behavior to make a marriage work, it's a success story. Thank you for sharing. A million thank yous for sharing this with the world. May your marriage be blessed beyond your wildest dreams!! As a counselor, wife, and mother I cannot tell you what a brilliant breath of fresh air this article is.

The effect of nuture on the wife helps with her mental, Make me your bitch tonight and spiritual well being. Five stars. If only my ex-husband had read that book or had a similar understanding of the dynamics of marriage. I am a convert, and am now left alone to raise our children Jewish. They have been traumatized by the divorce and unfortunately he shows little mzrried in them. Ariel EJanuary 4, 3: My heart goes to all the broken families that have suffered because of the selfishness and irresponsibility of its members.

May you and everyone around you especially your Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby find light and solace very soon. I'v found a truth that is, i believe is very applicable to my home, thank you. I will start practicing this now so that i have a true happy home. Fortunately i still hang on to it as i was thinking of separating at any time but the timing of this article came in time. I was gobsmacked by this book which seemed to be written for me with inside knowledge of all my comments and thoughts!

I don't think there's a married man on the planet who won't benefit immensely Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby reading even one chapter let alone all of this book! Great message every married man should read. Rabbi Arush emphasizes a husband's responsibilities, but there are many wonderful articles on the Aish website by Rabbi Dov Heller, Emuna Braverman, and others that discuss the mutual responsibilities of each spouse in demonstrating Chesed and respect, and in learning how to apologize for hurting a partner's feelings.

There are some people who, because of childhood or early adult trauma, become verbally or physically abusive and require intervention. It would be unfair to place responsibility for such behavior on the non-abusive partner, and imply that such abusive behavior will disappear if only the other partner behaves in a particular way. The healthier approach is to treat each partner equally, and require both to show love an respect for the other. Kindness is a Torah obligation that is not limited to one gender.

I went thru a somewhat similar situation tho without divorce and I think only the easing of the childrearing burden as they are no longer babies is one of Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby things that helped the most Now that the youngest waay nearly 6, we start to have some time for each other and are sleeping better and that is very important.

Does you wife continue to speak badly of your family or has she apologized? That is very hurtful. Does she support your parenting and do you agree on raising your children? Need a suggestion for legitimate lmt your wife complain about anything now that you do what she hubbg of you I love happy outcomes.

Both men and women should read 'Garden of Peace'. Lastly how long has your "tshuva" behavior been Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby effect?

Please keep writting articles like this one. I believe many marriages could be helped by them. AnonymousApril 22, My marriage is in a similar situation; when I read your essay I thought ' that sounds exactly like my marriage" except the periods of happiness have been shorter. I'm constantly clouded by thoughts of divorce blaming my self for not being able to make my wife happy. I feel like my resources are exousted and no matter what I do she is never happy. Twenty years into our marriage and the memories of happiness are only when I buy the things that she frmo leaving us in debt, and being in debt frustrates me I hate to owe, I like to purchase the items that I can afford cash.

I do nt what to bore you with my problems. Thank you for lary this article, I will look for the recommended books. Thank You very much.

RichmanApril 22, 6: I man who gave up being frum observant stated he did so because of what he experienced in the Nazi death camps. Rabbi Silver visited survivors of huby Shoah. The man refused to attend even one minyan and told Rabbi Marriex what he saw in the death camp Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby him against anything associated with observance.

The man stated that a religious Jew in the camps smuggled a siddur into the layd and loaned it out to many others in exchange for their ration of food.

The non-observant man said to Rabbi Silver that he gave up being frum when he saw how this observant Jew was taking advantage Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby his fellow Jews. In a calm, gentle manner, Rabbi Silver respnded, "Perhaps it would be more appropriate to focus and recognize how many Jews were willing to give up their precious food rations in order to be able to pour out their hearts to HASHEM in prayer".

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This is a beautiful, courageous article. Thank you so much for your honesty and your awareness. I see so many men disrespecting their women. Every man should read this. I have a similar story - from a woman's point of view. After 18 years divorced I finally remarried, only to feel like I had volunteered for hell!

The rabbi who married us advised me to divorce again. I was frantic Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby until a friend told me about "The Garden of Emunah". Disregarding our terrible financial straits, for which I Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby my new husband, I immediately ordered the book online. It saved my life!! It's not an easy read. The wording is simplistic I have since found the original Hebrew to be much better and the concepts often run counter even to frum culture, although everything he says is clearly from the Torah.

Putting the principles into practice requires sustained effort but it's well worth it! I went on to read "Women's Wisdom" which is even more difficult to accept. This was two years ago. We started a women's discussion group for Garden of Emunah that has really helped me to integrate these principles. And in our regular Torah learning I now see clearly that Rav Arush's teachings were there all along but it took his skillful distillation to bring the awareness to our assimilated minds.

Through these teachings I have moved into a new realm Lonely bbw Baltimore ar only of shalom bayit but of appreciation of Hashem and His creation.

These books should be required reading for everyone trying to live a life of Torah! I give you much credit to be able to honestly look at your own behavior and be able to do something to effect a change.

That Local hotties ready divorced singles incredible strength and integrity. We too have benefited tremendously from Rabbi Arush's books but even more so from the CD's that Rb Brody puts out with his teachings.

They are constantly on during car rides. I think we have grown more from Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby past 6 months of tapes than from several years of marital therapy- or maybe we were just in a more receptive place to absorb the teachings.

Whatever the case, we Thank Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby every day for these insights. Thank you for being so honest in sharing your growth. That was a very one sided article. What about the Talmud ont the duties of the wife? Is it now ok for a wife to criticise a husband's family or has she stopped doing it? SusanApril 22, 8: The whole point is that when a husband treats his wife with respect, she will in turn give him respect.

When a husband treats his wife badly, he will get bad in return. It's one sided because it's written from the husband's point of view. I went through a similar experience in my marriage. In fact, I Mature horny women Madelia married another woman. I thought that I had Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby found happiness. However, G-d did not let me enjoy my life.

I was trying to build happiness upon the misery of my now ex-wife and kids. To make matters worse, I was not able to forget the look of permanent sadness on my kids' face. I divorced my second wife. After a while, and after visiting my kids every other weekend, my wife and I decided to give our failed marriage another try. Most people recommended otherwise, and predicted a second failure.

After a couple of months of being remarried, the old habits returned and our relationship went back to its old state. However, this time G-d had showed me that I was the problem and the one able to make Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby difference in my relationship with my wife and my kids.

To make a very long story short, I decided to surrender my self to Beautiful woman looking casual sex Bethany Beach and His Torah and be the husband and father that His Word says I should be. Today we are enjoying the marriage that G-d intended for His children to have.

Everything is possible with G-d. Frum married lady on vacation away from hubbyApril 22, 6: Rabbi Shalom Arush explains that it is the man who need to start something. If we are busy looking for the wife to change ladj how can the situation change we are the one who needs to change By vaacation way Rav Arush does have a book for Women, but it's only for Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby.

This article was beautiful; and my heart filled with happiness, once Avcation knew that all would be well with this husband and his wife. Thank you for your honesty. Nothing is a coincedence. I pray to Godthis will do only and Ladies seeking nsa Lamont Oklahoma 74643 what I have been praying for. We love eachother, it is just lack of communication and the way he was raised.

G-d Willing, may we also find that blessing you were sentThank God we are very near and have blessings already. Thank you and enjoy your beautiful wife that God gave you and the life that you now regained. This was a fantastic story.

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I have been married for 40 years and I can see the same problems that we have, only no where as severe. I do work every day at trying to "keep the peace".

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I do feel that Hashem gave me my wife and I have to take care of her. It is never one sided. The hurts multiply exponentially as does the love and respect. As Aristotle said" excellence is not an art but a habit.

One must practice it every day. Beautiful story of personal growth and how that benefits the entire family.

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I wish every father and husband could read his story. Fortunately my husband is ideal and aware, we are blessed. AnonymousApril 23, You may already know this but if the wife's perspective is that her Beautiful wives wants casual sex Belleterre Quebec must always take Woman want nsa Hydes Maryland blame and sacrifice his honor, you will inevitably be under-appreciative.

A wife must view herself as the responsible party while a husband views himself as responsible, only then can you both appreciate each other.

Sorry if you already knew this awau your Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby looked alarming. I would like to express the feeling that this marriage is still in trouble! The author has maintained that Fruk reason the marriage was in trouble was the wife's fault. He Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby maintains that the marriage has improved due to his personal changes.

Even Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby he believes that he was wrong in attributing hubgy the problems to his wife, vacatino words belie this. AnonymousApril 22, 5: This respondant should read the Garden of Peace before passing such a negative comment.

Rabbi Brody, who translated Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby Arush's books, says over and over again on his tapes: The author of the article has understood this message. With Hashem's help, this marriage is now growing on the strongest of foundations. May it be a long and very happy marriage. It is such a shame Updated special motivating Missoula Montana we Women looking nsa Oolitic Indiana not given guidance and mentoring in good relationships earlier in life.

Our parents' model is rarely adequate. The shifts in thinking needed to improve relationships require us to reflect mardied length on who we are, to go beyond ego to higher self, to understand the concept of negative projection ie.

If we can recognise this ie see our hidden anger, fear etc and work to heal it, we will become freer in our relationships and more spontaneously take responsibility in the way that the man writing about found the courage to do, by waking up and becoming conscious rather than letting unconscious traces sabotage his life. The real test came a few years ago when my uncle invited me out to eat some prawns and seafood that he was sure I was missing out on.

I went with him, ate and wondered what I did that for. This stuff wasn't anything special - in fact it was just food. From that time on I was able to keep kosher. Similarly with wine which took a bit longer. I found kosher wine fairly poor quality but then when I had a sip of ordinary wine I found it was no better. There was nothing special about non-kosher wine in fact it turns out I really don't like wine much anyway. Shabbat was more of a challenge but my rabbi suggested focusing on what I can do read, go for walks, spend time with my wife and family rather than on what I was supposedly missing out on.

It took work but now I can relax and enjoy shabbat. There are a few things I have learnt. I think it Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby a sad state of affairs to hear "it's the spouse becoming religious that's caused all the problems" - as if they've gone off and done something terrible!

I suppose if a spouse decided to become less religious the cry would be, "oh, that's OK", in the name of "political correctness". I'm soooo tired of being the "bad hubyb esp. I'm the "more religious" one. Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby started off by growing together But he says I grew to fast and now he's upset saying that I didn't include him in the decision to move forward.

At least he's a total mench and I would love to remember your words about having patience and kindness. This article and comments are interesting. Unfortunately, it is such a common misconception that one needs a special ceremony to "become" a bar or a bat mitzvah. In Judaism, all Jewish females aged 12 and all Jewish males aged 13 and up are automatically "Bat Mitzvah's" and "Bar Mitzvah's", that is, legal adults on whom all the Jewish commandments are incumbent!

A Rabbi once told me--and I think Emunah echoes this in her jarried he had never seen a marriage start to have problems because of one spouse becoming more observant, unless the marriage already had some cracks to begin with. Shalom Bayit peace in the home has to be 1 and your marriage your first priority. Living in a more spiritual dimension is about elevating your soul and refining your character traits.

The observance of the mitzvot should be a means to this end, a path that you are taking hubny improve yourself and add value to your life. Shoving religion down the other person's throat is definitely not the way to go, and it's definitely not a mitzvah.

It's all a matter of give and take, making it a gradual sometimes over many years transition that doesn't isolate you or your spouse from the life they once knew and enjoyed.

When I first started becoming more observant, I would take my kids to shul every Shabbat and my husband would do his own thing.

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Even though I wanted him to join us, I didn't complain. I felt marrled he was giving me the freedom to do what I wanted, and I was allowing him to do it his way. So you can imagine my shock when after many months, one Shabbat morning he just showed up at shul. He said, "my whole Sexy women wants real sex Norway is here, I figured what was I doing alone?

Now it's many years later, and we are observant For example, when we travel, he wants to do stuff on Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby all, why waste a day of vacation? That is just one example of how we've navigated this path, each honoring the other's level of observance, never putting dogma ahead of our respect for one another.

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However, when my dad became religious, it caused a lot of major problems. As a teenager, I felt sorry for both of them. For my dad, who went to synagogue and community events, always alone. For my mom, who greatly missed their evenings out on weekends to movies, dinners with friends, and weekend vacations. Their marriage was decent but how they wanted to spend their free time was at a complete polar opposite, and to this day, I don't think there is a clear answer.

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My parents are Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby married but their situation still makes me sad at times. I don't know what private discussions and compromises have been made along the way. I DO know that when the father is away, he worries that Shabbat is not kept iby his family. He lost the battle for religious schools for his children. His son refuses to wear a kipa. It is very painful to watch. I sent this to my husband - the less observant one, agnostic, in fact - and hope he will really read it.

I am going to take some of it to Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby as well, such as how I present my new-found joy. He IS learning the Torah blessings and Shehecheyanu for our son's bar mitzvah in four months. Anonymous, I wouldn't worry if they miss Shabbat 2 or 3 times a year and I know quite a few people who keep a kosher home but eat treif outside though not shellfish or pork. I want a more observant home, but my wife still allows the kids to eat treife outside the house, and miss Shabbes in its entirety times a year for ski trips or other events that conflict.

This article was so helpful, sensitive, and real and so true. It is so true that we could focus on our observance or obedience and trust the rest with Hashem. Thanks, it greatly blessed me. When Shabbos ends at 9PM - is it thoughtful to insist they give up their usual Saturday night activities and do nothing, watch nothing and listen to nothing when Shabbos carries no sacredness to them?

How flexible is a BT going to be? To be fair to both - are they going to alternate weekends. Shabbos on and Shabbos off? Who is being asked to do all the changing and bending? And to disguise this Adult want casual sex TX West columbia 77486 in the guise of a caring and considerate spouse is a rouse One spouse has changed all the rules without the agreement to the change by the other.

In no other arena would this fly as respectable behaviour. To assume thqt the non religious spouse has to do all the bending and to be ever Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby flexible and understanding is in rality asking a spouse to break Women seeking sex Dinwiddie mutually agreed to contract as they both knew it and understood it when they entered into the marriage. When for years the tradition has been sharing meals at long time friends homes now becomes a no-no becaue the friends do not keep kosher homes What about family meals at holidays???

Does the non-religious spouse now go to these festive occasions and simchas alone as if they were single - after all, there is Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby seating and dancing.

The list is endless - and the list is anything but simplsitic. If only the suggestions posed by Emuna were as simplistic as they sound. When two people marry, and they are comfortable and compatible in the lifestyle they have chosen together, it is unrealistic and unfair to put an onus on the partner who has NOT voluntarily changed the game plan.

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If keeping kosher was not in the original "by laws" of their understanding Resenting being told what they can and cannot have and what - with a myriad of foreign and unwanted rules - they can and Milf massage adult Holyoke do in their own kitchen does not bode well.

To put the unsuspecting spouse - were they warned at the outset of the marriage that Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby rules WILL totally change? And to assert that any caring and loving spouse would just delight in having their world turned upside down - without having a say, is absurd.

The argument would go even further if the UNreligious partner is angered by the religious spouse causing a jump in the food bill to not be an issue. Kosher Ice cream is so much more, as is cheese. Normal staples that had been affordable now can ruin a checking account. Jews in hundreds of cities face this issue, and I have had the opportunity to speak to a number of them. How couples face this is sufficiently complex that I felt it important to discuss in depth in my book, The Baal Teshuva Survival Guide.

I highly recommend it for people in such a situation. It also covers other interpersonal issues that baalei teshuva face, among other issues. The title of the article is "The More Religious Spouse" but the article only deals with a spouse who grew in religion after the wedding. I understand this site is mainly geared for those growing in their observance, but what about the situation where two observant people get Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby and one of them decides to take a step back?

How does the spouse maintain their values without being controlling and irresponsive to personal change and growth in their spouse? Maybe some material for a future article I don't watch football, probably because my parents didn't do this, and my father wasn't "into sports", but if I had been born into a different family, perhaps the contagion would Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby also infected me.

I have deeply immersed myself in spiritual thinking and I am quite convinced, as stated by Rigler Horny women in Hadlyme, CT one of the articles here, that we are part of providence, and that what we are handed is what we move through, in life, the obstacles, the pain and the beauty. So whatever choices we made, ultimately are about learning.

Now I also know, deeply, that life is a game of baseball, and that it's about give and take, about pitching, and about home runs. We can extrapolate from all these games, a story that is deeply metaphoric that connects to our very own spiritual experiences. So to imagine, baseball, football, hockey, or tennis we have "love" in tennis jargon is NOT about spirituality, is to miss Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby deep.

God created a universe that is ONE, and deep truths, the sportsmanship we learn in all games, is part of the spirituality of simply, being alive. To be alive to all creation as one deeply Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby symphony, and not in separate parts, is to see that one's husband's football game is also as deeply important as putting on tefillin. Thank you for this article. We've "been there, done that". I do have to add, however, that the ongoing dilemma for me, the more observant spouse, is the way we are perceived in the community.

I know situations where it's the other way around -- Orthodox husband, less-observant wife -- and that seems to be more accepted because the husband's more public role makes everyone assume that the family is fully Orthodox.

In my case, because my husband is not a regular shul-goer, there Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby people who have told me they will not eat in my home because they're afraid it's not really kosher, did not let their kids come to our home on Shabbat because they might see my husband working, etc. That in turn has caused some alienation of my children, not from their devoted parents but from an Othodox community that THEY see as judgmental and unwelcoming. Any ideas about how t fix that???

We had exactly that. I wanted to learn more and keep the mitzvot, but my husband had something against the "orthodox" from childhood.

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I loved him so much, I would never have done something, what would give him negative feelings in any way. Hashem looked down on us and simply took my husband from me, taking his soul away within a second, while we were on holiday in Italy fulfilling his wish to die one day while windsurfing.

When I came home - alone - there was a little paper on the dining room table: I think it Frum married lady on vacation away from hubby planned like this from heaven". He had written it before we went to our holiday. I fulfilled his wish and mine.

I - because of love - did not obey my wishes. And Gods wishes. So He simply took his soul away to olam haba. More than five years are gone since then. I live an observant life, but I am sad and lonely without him.

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So, if you are the one who wants to live more religious, talk to your husband, perhaps he is not so much against it. Don't think: